Its is always a popular talk almost daily about how men should handle their wives at home.But unfortunately some men don’t treat their wives very well which results to conflict at home a times you see them fighting or even divorce,,,. Naturally women needs love and can do anything to get the love they needs and when they gets it,they feel on top of the world and they brag about their partner publicly.This issue isn’t much difficult if men can understand the women very well and that’s why its necessary that intending couples should date at least 1 year to enable them study each other very well to enable them not to be causing sorrow to another. Understanding one another is basically necessary in marriage in order to make move at the right time.In Nigeria today many families are in shamble because of lack of understanding between both parties and its affecting  both them and the kids because it divides the family into two and most times children take side of whom they love more but its the duty of a man to put the family into order for the family to move forward  and below are some basic guidelines to follow and get the desired result

1. BE PRAYERFUL:The first thing a family needs is God because its Him that ordained that man and woman should come together as husband and wife,so making Him the first principle will go a long way to solve many family crisis.EARLY MORNING AND BEDTIME PRAYERS ARE VERY EFFECTIVE when couples puts their mind in it and form it as habit.Praying with the kids is very much advised as it builds a happier and love bound family but you needs to also have a short COUPLE BEDROOM PRAYER is good

2.FREQUENT OUTING  OR DATING: Once in a while  date her outside the house as if shes your new catch girlfriend.The truth of the matter is that no matter how old a woman is,she still needs to be treated like an under 18 millennium babe.She knows how much you earns ans as such the little you buy for her on the date will go a long way to make her sub conscious mind register a message that THIS MAN REALLY LOVES ME

3. SURPRISE GIFTS: Of course everyone knows this trick that a times self,they do joke with it and say YOU WAN BRIBE ME WITH THIS GIFT RIGHT? Especially when you want to settle an issue.  Once in a while like 3 months especially when you get your salary surprise her with a gift. No matter how cheap,she appreciates it(eg,necklace etc). In as  much she knows how your finance is ran,she wont complain when you buys her the thing

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