Abortion is simply the termination of pregnancy in order not to allow it to be born or given birth to.There are many ways to do this simple act depending on the person or persons involved and where they went to.It can be done at the clinic or personally depending on the experience and thee are many things that can be used to perform this.
Abortion is a serious issue in lives of many ladies or women and it has a lot of negative effects to life of any one involved. Biblical,both the person that advised her to do it,the person who carried out the operation and the lady involved have committed a great sin which Bible said “THOU SHALL NOT KILL”. But I must tell you,in Nigeria ladies of these days fears only about getting pregnant and care less about catching infection(s) like HIV,syphilis,staph etc and that”s why they are not concerned about every warning to use CONDOM when they want to have sex until they marry,,funny is that most will give excuse like: MY BOYFRIEND DON’T ENJOY IT WITH CONDOM or WE DON’T ENJOY IT THAT WAY or ITS SWEETER TO HAVE IT RAW ETC but all these excuses are not enough to risk your life especially this time around where infection is at the top of its increase like poverty rate in Nigeria maybe because of how SEX is becoming order of the day . From my own observation I can tell you that Nigeria needs more awareness about STI’s because ladies of these days don’t know or care less about the infections and same with men,all the want is an open space in between the legs to insert what they have on their pants . Do you know that about 3.2 million Nigerians are HIV positive? Seriously something should be done though Health sectors are trying their best so far to curtail the spread but we too needs to help ourselves. He tells you that he don’t enjoy the sex with condom just because hes your boyfriend,you open the leg and he inserts.
Tomorrow U get pregnant and you abort because its cheap to afford. What about infections? Most of single ladies aborts up to 5 times or more maybe for a single guy or different guys. Worst when you do it for a particular guy,he later dump you to marry another girl and you come here to tell me MEN ARE NOT TO BE TRUSTED. What is in your mind? Majority will have it in mind that you have exhausted all the kids to abortion and hes not a GAY to put a man in his house. Total abstinence is BEST but if you cant control it.. USE CONDOM. You have no excuse for abortion. Do you know that if you die on the process that he’ll come your burial with another girl? What about married people? If you cant control your cheating life,please save your life and that of your partner by using condom. Many are infertile today because of abortion. If that child cries on your head for just once,do you think nature will not hold you down?
REASONS TO SAY NO TO ABORTION
1. By all accounts, abortion appears like an awful crime. After all, abortion implies denying someone a well-deserved life. Just because the odds are not in our favor,is it good to deprive others chance to live? How will you feel if your parents denied you life? can you put yourself in the child”s shoes to know how it feels like?
2. By terminating a life, can we justify our acts? A baby is often considered as a God’s gift, and it’s believed that every living being has a purpose behind his/her birth. By tampering with a life, aren’t we acting against the creator of the world? Can you defend the act before God and can it be granted?
3. Having an abortion done always carries the risk of not being able to become pregnant ever again in life because it might contact a complication in one way or the other like creating damage to the womb
4. Abortion can also lead to serious health complications, and in some cases the worst case scenario can be death.This might be because of bleeding and if the operator has no much experience eg QUACK DOCTORS
5. It often leads to unwanted memories, which can result into great stress and depression. Some women experience a feeling of guilt, which lasts for their whole lifetime. In short, abortion can turn out to be a lifetime worth of burden. As a human being,you cant deceive your conscience
REASONS WHY PEOPLE OPT FOR ABORTION
1. Sometimes life can be really harsh on us. There are times when abortion may appear as the only option for the betterment. Although a mother may have a hard time opting for this option, she may eventually consider this soul-killing decision, keeping in mind all the complications of this decision.
2. At the end of the day, a mother has to go through the actual labor pain and other issues involved with parenting and juggling responsibilities. Others can’t precisely gauge or understand the level of trauma that a woman may be experiencing in her personal life. She is the only person who knows best, if she would be able to take care of the unplanned child or not. We all know that it’s merely impossible to raise a child without family support and finance in hand. To a great extent, the life of the baby depends upon the mother’s health.
3. In some cases, medical emergencies compel a woman to resort to this action. There is a possibility that her own life might be at risk, if she delivers the child like those who gets pregnant at old age or one health problem or the other the woman has
4. Some of the rape victims can be minors. They wouldn’t be mentally or physically prepared to take care of the newborn baby. Why should such victims go through the ordeal of bearing a child, which is a product of some unfortunate incident of their life? And after delivery,the child will keep bringing up the evil incidence to her memory all the days of her life,so she might decide to kill it
5. Technologies have enabled disease detection amongst unborn babies. Giving life to an unhealthy baby and watching it suffer all day and night can be highly jeopardizing for the family as well as the newborn child.As well as issues like giving birth to SICKLE CELLARS
6. Can a woman be forced to produce a life? Giving life to an unwanted child might invite world of troubles for both mother and the child. So, are we being fair to the child?
But in all,I can tell you that rate of abortion is very high these days maybe because almost all now knows how to do it even personally not minding the complications afterwards and 68% of them are from personal mistakes like UNPROTECTED SEX among the singles which we should try to help limit it to avoid problems later as many of them are not ready for the kids yet they wont listen to safer ways to enjoy sex without it resulting to pregnancy.Let us all try to ABSTAIN or use CONDOM for the good of our health.Remain blessed and protect yourself in order to life a good risk free life
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