Relationship is the trend of the day. Its something everyone even you reading this post is into. Some has entered what they will consider as best or worst relationship depending on the outcome and who is involved. Dating is needed prior to marriage in order to access your intending life partner if you both are compatible or not. Its time to learn both sides of your partner and decide if you can endure his/her excesses for the rest of your life when you both get married.
It’s tempting to jump into relationships when we meet someone we believe is wonderful. But it takes a few months to begin gauging someone’s character, and two to three years to truly know them, we are setting ourselves up for disaster if we commit too soon.
HERE ARE 9 QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF WHICH WILL GUIDE YOU TO MAKING A BETTER CHOICE
1. How well do I know him/her?
Don’t trust someone until you know them. Oh! How we miss this one. A lot.
“But our friends introduced us.” It doesn’t matter. Anyone can wear masks. The best way to know someone is this: 1) Spend time with them while they’re with their family. 2) Listen to the words they say to you. 3) Observe them in a variety of circumstances.
Not watching them interact with their family is one of the worse mistakes we’ve made in our post-1920s western dating culture. For some reason, “Meet the parents” has become the last step before planning the engagement.
What kind of family does he/she come from? That was their foundation and upbringing until they left home. No matter how far we travel, those development years left a huge impression on who we are, and who we’re likely to resort back to when we’re older.
2. Can I trust them with my secrets?
If they share your private conversations with others, will they walk away or have a serious discussion about that issue. If you don’t take care of it now, you’ll only resent them later. Are they ready to stay with you after knowing your darkest past?