Many of us have experienced a bad break up in our lives and know what it takes to get over it, while some of us may just now be experiencing one and feel as if life itself is over and that the pain you may be feeling will never end. Believe those of us with the experience of a bad break up, what you are experiencing right now will end. You must understand that this is just a season in your life right now, and even though the pain you feel may feel unbearable at times, your soul has to deal with letting go a person that you never thought it would have to let go of.
If you know in your heart that your relationship is truly over take your time to grieve you will most certainly need it, but don’t succumb to your grief. What’s most important is that you are able to pick yourself back up again, you don’t need your EX to survive. Try to avoid your EX completely as seeing them around, talking to them on the phone, hanging with mutual friends, or listening to songs that remind you of them will probably lead to more pain and confusion, especially if you know that it is really over. Focus on bettering yourself, and take what you learned from this past experience and make sure you put it to good use for your next relationship. Just know that there are good men and women out there,learn from your past and apply wisdom on your next relationship but never make up your mind not to date again because you don’t know the one coming might be the best in the world.Let your past one teach you how to handle the future.
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Written by Prince Jones